Rebuild Connection. Rediscover Purpose. Strengthen Your Marriage.
A coaching experience designed to help couples reconnect, rebuild, and realign their relationship so they can live out the marriage they were meant to experience.
A coaching experience designed to help couples reconnect, rebuild, and realign their relationship so they can live out the marriage they were meant to experience.
"I don't even know who we are anymore."
"I feel like I'm walking on eggshells."
"Everything feels broken."
When betrayal, addiction, or infidelity wounds a marriage, the pain runs deep, shattering trust and making genuine connection feel impossible. The silence, the tears, and the growing distance create a heavy shadow over every part of life.
The joy, peace, and shared purpose you once knew seem stolen.
"We're living like roommates, not partners."
"I want to trust again, but I'm scared."
If you're overwhelmed by hopelessness, wondering if recovery is possible after such profound trauma, know that you are not alone.
Many couples face this devastating impact. The path back to clarity, unity, and connection is difficult, but it is within reach.
True healing requires intentional steps, courageous vulnerability, and a commitment to a guided recovery.
We are Ben and Rachele—a husband-and-wife team called by God to serve couples navigating their deepest marital challenges.
Our heart is to help you experience a marriage healed, restored, and flourishing as God intended.
Our proven framework guides couples through four essential phases of transformation. Each step builds upon the last, creating lasting change and deeper connection.
Restore trust, empathy, and emotional closeness through intentional communication and presence.
Identify and heal the patterns that create distance, replacing them with healthier ways of relating.
Clarify a shared purpose and vision for your life together, grounded in your deepest values.
Build sustainable rhythms that protect closeness and connection for the long term.
Your marriage grows stronger when each partner grows as an individual
Work with Ben to develop clarity, leadership, strength, and purpose. Perfect for men navigating the pressure to provide, succeed, and show up well in their marriage.
Men's coaching addresses the unique challenges you face—balancing strength with vulnerability, leading with wisdom, and creating emotional safety for your spouse. You'll gain practical tools to communicate more effectively, manage stress, and step into the husband you want to be.
Explore Men's Coaching →Work with Rachele to build confidence, emotional grounding, and relational clarity. Ideal for women seeking deeper connection, peace, and personal growth within their marriage.
Women's coaching creates space to process emotions, set healthy boundaries, and rediscover your voice. You'll learn to honor your needs while nurturing your relationship, finding balance between caring for others and caring for yourself. Discover your unique worthiness and value in your identity in Christ.
Explore Women's Coaching →The transformation you're longing for is possible. Imagine waking up each day feeling connected, understood, and aligned with your partner.
Learn to speak and listen in ways that build understanding instead of walls. Express your needs without fear and hear your partner's heart without defensiveness.
Rebuild the emotional intimacy that makes marriage feel like home. Experience the safety of being fully known and fully loved.
Replace destructive cycles with constructive conversations. Navigate disagreements with grace and emerge stronger on the other side.
Unite around common goals and values that give your marriage direction and meaning. Build a life together that reflects what matters most.
Create rhythms and routines that protect your relationship and foster peace. Build a family culture grounded in love and purpose.
Cultivate a relationship where faith is the foundation, drawing closer to God individually and together, and experiencing His presence in your marriage.
Every thriving marriage began with one brave decision—the choice to invest, to grow, to try again. That moment is available to you right now.
A Marriage Breakthrough Session is your personalized starting point. In this focused conversation, we'll help you gain clarity on what's creating distance in your relationship and map out practical next steps toward healing and connection.
You'll leave with fresh perspective, renewed hope, and a clear path forward. No judgment, no pressure—just compassionate guidance from people who genuinely care about your marriage.
The life you want together is worth fighting for. Let's take that first step today.
Book a Marriage Breakthrough SessionStart with our free guide: "5 Rhythms That Strengthen Any Marriage"
Sometimes the best place to begin is with small, practical steps you can take today. Our free guide offers five simple rhythms that any couple can implement immediately to begin rebuilding connection and intimacy.
These aren't complicated strategies or unrealistic expectations. They're practical, proven rhythms that busy couples use to stay connected even in demanding seasons.
Download the Free GuideDon't just take our word for it. Here's what couples are experiencing through The Healed Marriage coaching:
Working with Ben and Rachele gave us tools we never learned anywhere else. We can finally talk about hard things without it turning into a fight. Our marriage feels like a partnership again, not a battlefield.
— Michael and SarahRachele's coaching helped me understand that I can honor my needs and still love my husband well. I'm more confident, more grounded, and our relationship is stronger because of it.
— JenniferWe thought we had a pretty good marriage, but coaching took us to a whole new level. We're more connected, more intentional, and more aligned than we've ever been. This work changed everything.
— David and Emily